Is time the one who makes you happy today?
Updated: Oct 20, 2020
Human beings always try to divide the enormous compliment, time, into little limited pieces like seconds, minutes, hours, days, weeks, months, years, which are a whole. And our lives, are very little parts of it.
Every day we get 24 hours, and every person usually gets the freedom to utilize those 24 hours differently. As we all know, time is an imminent part of our lives.
And we often come across a well-known phrase ‘Either you run the day, or the day runs you’.
It is rightly said because every moment in our life is time. Anything that passes and never comes back is very important and time is one of those valuable treasures.
What is time:
Earlier in the days, it was difficult to manage time because there was no such equipment to determine the time. All our ancestors did was predict the time based on sunrise and sunset.
Most physicists agreed that time had a beginning and that it is measured from The Big Bang some 13.8 billion years ago. They also agree that time is one of the most difficult properties of our universe to understand. Even in the most modern and complex physical models, time is the indefinite continued progress of existence and events that occur in apparently irreversible succession from the past through the present to the future.
Time is not an object or substance we can touch or see. But neither is it merely a dimension, quantity, or a concept. Indeed, the time has many aspects and appears to represent different things to different people in different circumstances.
What is time for me:
Growing up in a Colombian family, time was not a priority. By this I mean, for example, if we were invited for dinner or a birthday party at 6 pm, we were not rushed to be on time. It could happen that at 6 pm we would start getting ready and end up arriving around 7:30 - 8 pm.
On the other hand, we would always find the right excuse to always be late. If you were catching up for a coffee with your friend and you were running 30 mins late, you would always find an excuse to blame it on someone else and not on your lack of planning, of course. Excuses like, oh my god! you have no idea the traffic jam I got into it was just insane, or... As I was heading out I couldn't find the keys to my car and you have no idea how long it took me to find them...
For the first 18 years of my life, I lived in a world where time was not a priority at all. Later on, in Uni I got a teacher who was quite demanding with punctuality, he would close the classroom door at 3 pm on the dot when the class started, and no one who was running few minutes late would be able to get in. It sounded so extreme at the beginning but this started making me think, how I could lose opportunities in life for not even caring about time.
Next in life, I came to Australia to study and decided to work in hospitality, babysit, and intern at SBS radio, because I wanted to save money to travel. The fun part, I still needed to keep it up with my studies and wouldn't want to miss the parties. At some points, it felt unbalanced and crazy at others it was fair to work hard and play hard. Although I felt sometimes not the best at managing my time, it was these great scenarios that brought me to a really interesting conclusion. That I now call the magic combination.
To get to this conclusion I did some interesting calculations. First I realized that up to today I have lived 10,603 days oh my god! that sounds a lot, this also means around 254,472 hours! :O
The following questions came to my head: Have I invested all my time wisely? What percentage of this time has gone into my personal development, my health, my family and friends, my finance, and so on... Have I wasted my time in something, someone, or somewhere?
And a lot of voices started yelling in my head until the loudest one of all said, Catalina! Remember you promised yourself to never make any day of your life the same as the previous one. And you have forbidden yourself to fall into this cycle of eat sleep work repeat...
So what is it that I am doing with the time of my life?
Everyone get your calculators ready please Hahaha
A week has 168 hrs and this is how I spend them on average:
49 hrs of sleep
38 hrs at my job
12 hrs for friends and boyfriend
11 hrs eating
10 hrs freelancing
10 hrs commuting
9 hrs relaxing
9 hrs to workout
6 hrs planning (wedding, next travels, catch-ups)
4 hrs learning Norwegian
2 hrs toastmasters - public speaking skills
2 hrs meal prepping my week meals
1 hr into managing my finance
And still 5 hrs free to start implementing some reading, writing, and possibly meditation?
So after revealing my magical combination. I would like to invite you all to think about how you are spending those 168 hrs a week. And if that is what is making you happy today?